Supporting Positive Peer Interactions

A step-by-step strategy to help toddlers work through challenging social situations

Responsive, sensitive relationships between adults and children allow children to learn and develop across all areas. Serve and Return Interactions help caregivers connect by noticing and responding to a child’s needs and interests. As a result, the child feels confident to explore their world because they see their caregiver as a source of support and comfort.

Hallmarks of This Strategy

Focus on the child

Children feel connected and understood when we share their focus and respond to their needs and interests.

Follow the child's lead

When we allow children to lead, we help build their confidence and curiosity.

Practice every day

We can practice serve and return interactions anytime, anywhere.

VIDEO 1

Introduction: Supporting Positive Peer Relationships

Simple interactions between adults and young children help make strong connections in developing brains. And, it’s easy and fun to do! Developed by Harvard University’s Center on the Developing Child, this video shares 5 simple steps to maximize your use of serve and return interactions.

VIDEO 2

Scenario 1: Sharing Trains

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VIDEO 3

Scenario 2: Taking Turns with Playdough

Simple interactions between adults and young children help make strong connections in developing brains. And, it’s easy and fun to do! Developed by Harvard University’s Center on the Developing Child, this video shares 5 simple steps to maximize your use of serve and return interactions.

VIDEO 4

Scenario 3: Trading Chairs

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Extra Resources?

5 Steps for Brain-Building Serve and Returns

A short two-page explainer to continue learning about this strategy

5 Pasos para el Desarrollo Mental Saque y Volea

Un documento breve de 2 páginas para continuar aprendiendo sobre esta estrategia

Resources presented on this page are developed by Harvard University's Center on the Developing Child. To learn more, visit their comprehensive guide on serve and return interactions.